You don’t need to read a book about learning to say “No” and you don’t need to read a book about learning to say “Yes”.

Saying yes to opportunities and adventures which may offer much learning is good.

Saying no to situations that are not good for you, whether directly harmful or exploiting senses of obligation or guilt, is always an option and often wise.

The rest you can imagine, and spend time with a better book!

Now that really is Self Help!

A few eggs can be used to make a perfect, soft and moist omelette.

One flower and some ferns can fill a vase.

Two candlesticks can light a room dimly.

But if the candlesticks are large and hold many candles things are no longer dim.

Bright and tasty and colorful.

There are two ways of doing this, you will hear.

Why two?

Is the number important, is that why the number of solutions often precedes the all-important meat of the matter?

The ultimate gauge of value is quality.

The number of quality solutions that can vie for your support, at this morning’s crucial moment, that’s valuable.

Tomorrow we’ll go back to whimsy – unless an important solution pops out of the bag!

Waiting just that bit longer when you are hungry and looking for somewhere to eat in a new town, has always paid in spades for me.

Even, when it means going back to the first place paused at and admired .

Something new is always an experience, even if it’s not new in tangible ways.

Experience is the new currency. Perhaps it always was.

Today may be the right day for that action. Sure?
Tomorrow, decided upon, might be better.

Developing the sensitivity to know which, there’s the key.

You can learn to feel it.