It’s not always the person you spoke to on that first day who appears in front of you when you meet them months later.

Practicing how to evaluate a first impression, and then also to allow the possibility of seeing a changed being – the same person but a different character just days later, takes many attempts.

It’s never something you finish learning, keep trying to see the patterns, and gradually your focus is better!

Trusting your judgement does not mean you are being “judgmental”, not if you combine the first and then a second impression.

Your response to a person changes more than they do.